15 Steps to Homeownership: 5.

Next Module: Step 6 – Finding the Right Lender

Course Title: The Power of Ownership™: Easy Steps to Smart Homebuying

STEP 6: Finding the Right Lender

  1. COURSE OVERVIEW

While most buyers focus on the house, wise buyers also focus on who is financing it. Choosing the right lender can make a significant difference in your financial future. Step 6 of The Power of Ownership™ focuses on helping participants identify, evaluate, and partner with a lender who aligns with their goals, values, and budget.

From big banks and credit unions to mortgage brokers and online lenders, the lending landscape is vast. This module guides participants through comparing lender types, asking the right questions, reviewing loan estimate forms, and understanding how lenders earn money. Participants will learn to distinguish between interest rate and APR, recognize unnecessary fees, and secure favorable terms.

This step is about more than just money—it’s about trust, transparency, and long-term financial stewardship.

  1. LEARNING OBJECTIVES

By the end of this step, participants will:

  • Understand the different types of mortgage lenders and how they operate.
  • Compare lenders based on service, speed, rates, and transparency.
  • Learn how to request and interpret a Loan Estimate (LE).
  • Identify fees that may be negotiable or excessive.
  • Ask strategic questions to evaluate lender trustworthiness.
  • Know where to find down payment assistance programs.

III. SCRIPTURAL FOUNDATION

Proverbs 22:7 (NIV) – “The rich rule over the poor, and the borrower is slave to the lender.”

This verse isn’t a condemnation of lending—it’s a warning to be wise about whom you borrow from and under what terms. Your lender becomes your financial partner for decades. Choose them wisely.

  1. INSPIRATIONAL QUOTE

“A mortgage is a 15–30 year relationship—interview your lender like you would a lifelong business partner.” — Coach Greb

  1. TYPES OF MORTGAGE LENDERS

Not all lenders are the same. Understanding the landscape helps you select the best fit for your needs.

  1. Direct Lenders (Banks and Credit Unions)
  • Issue loans directly to borrowers
  • Typically offer in-house processing and underwriting
  • May have stricter criteria but offer relationship benefits
  1. Mortgage Brokers
  • Shop multiple lenders on your behalf
  • Can offer a wider variety of products
  • May charge a broker fee
  1. Online Mortgage Lenders
  • Streamlined digital process
  • Fast pre-approvals, competitive rates
  • Limited personal service
  1. Portfolio Lenders
  • Keep loans in-house (don’t sell them to investors)
  • Offer flexible underwriting
  • Good for self-employed or non-traditional borrowers
  1. LOAN ESTIMATES: WHAT TO REVIEW

A Loan Estimate (LE) is a standardized form showing what a loan will cost you.

Key Sections to Review:

  • Interest Rate – Cost of borrowing (does not include fees)
  • APR – True cost of the loan (includes fees + rate)
  • Loan Amount – Total principal
  • Monthly Payment – Principal + Interest + Escrow
  • Closing Costs – Origination fees, taxes, title, etc.
  • Prepayment Penalty – Ask if there is one

VII. QUESTIONS TO ASK YOUR LENDER

Being prepared during your lender interview builds confidence and uncovers important details. Consider these key questions:

  1. What type of loan do you recommend for my situation and why?
  2. What is the interest rate and APR on this loan?
  3. What are your lender fees and third-party fees?
  4. Do you offer rate locks, and for how long?
  5. Do you offer grants or down payment assistance programs?
  6. Will you sell my loan or service it in-house?

VIII. COMPARISON: LENDER A VS. LENDER B VS. LENDER C

Feature Lender A Lender B Lender C
Interest Rate 6.1% 6.0% 5.9%
APR 6.5% 6.3% 6.2%
Loan Estimate Fee $850 $1,200 $950
Closing Time 35 days 28 days 30 days
Offers DPA? Yes No Yes

Result: Lender B has the fastest close, but Lender C offers the best combination of rate, cost, and DPA eligibility.

  1. CASE STUDY: Jasmine’s Smart Choice

Jasmine, a first-time buyer and teacher, was pre-approved by her bank for a 6.3% interest loan with $1,400 in fees. On a friend’s advice, she compared three lenders. An online lender offered her 6.0% but charged $1,800 in origination. A credit union offered 5.95% with $900 in fees—and helped her qualify for a $5,000 teacher grant.

What She Did:

  • Compared Loan Estimates
  • Asked for fee breakdowns and rate lock options
  • Selected the credit union based on rate, fees, and service

Outcome: Jasmine closed with $6,500 in savings over the bank offer and used her grant for moving expenses.

  1. DO’S AND DON’TS

DO:

  • Shop at least three lenders
  • Ask for Loan Estimates in writing
  • Inquire about hidden and third-party fees
  • Use online reviews and referrals to vet lender reputation

DON’T:

  • Accept the first quote without comparing
  • Be pressured into signing quickly
  • Overlook long-term implications of ARM loans
  • Forget to ask about discounts for good credit or occupation
  1. PRACTICE EXERCISES
  2. Lender Interview Worksheet
  • List 3 lenders you plan to contact
  • Prepare 5 questions you will ask
  • Track their responses, rates, and fees
  1. Loan Estimate Comparison Table
Lender Rate APR Fees DPA Offered? Notes
  1. Reflection Prompt
  • What kind of service do I want from a lender?
  • How will I ensure I’m not overpaying for my loan?

XII. TEACHER’S MANUAL SNAPSHOT

Goals:

  • Help learners evaluate lender credibility
  • Teach them to break down and understand Loan Estimates
  • Reinforce wise borrowing through comparison and research

Tools Needed:

  • Sample Loan Estimate forms
  • Comparison charts
  • Lender question cards

Activities:

  • Roleplay: Lender and borrower Q&A
  • Small group lender comparisons
  • Group analysis of red flags in fake Loan Estimates

XIII. PARTICIPANT GUIDE SUMMARY

Includes:

  • Lender Interview Prep Sheet
  • Loan Estimate Analysis Tool
  • DPA Resource List

Assignment:

  • Contact 3 lenders this week
  • Request and compare Loan Estimates
  • Finalize lender interview notes and rankings

XIV. CONCLUSION

The lender you choose will be your partner in one of the biggest financial decisions of your life. Choose wisely. Don’t just chase a rate—seek understanding, clarity, and peace. Learn to ask, compare, and walk away if the terms don’t align with your mission.

Scripture Reminder: “Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed.” — Proverbs 15:22

Counsel, comparison, and courage—these are the tools that lead to the right lender

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